July 29, 2019

His Great Plan

Yesterday we attended a wedding and one of the congregational songs was "His Great Plan". Listening to a group of around 400 singing in amazing harmony was deeply moving. I was touched and it left an impression on me.

The hills are the arms of God, lifting me to Him
All the beauty of nature - mountains, oceans, seasons, birds, flowers, sunshine, blue sky - speaks of a divine Creator. Observing its majesty draws us to Him.



My every need is given by His hand
How blessed we are. We've been given so much and sometimes take it for granted.

Though I'm just a grain of dust, I'm part of His creation
To think of the vast universe and all the people God created makes me feel tiny and insignificant. I'm just a grain of dust, yet He made me and cares for me!

I'm glad He had a place for me in His great plan.
These words are hard for me. Sometimes I feel He doesn't have a place for me and His plan for my life is not what I wanted. In fact, believing these words is almost beyond my grasp. That's the bare, raw truth.

Singing this song when I was in the youth was inspiring and hopeful. Now that I'm older and have walked through some tough times, it's not very easy to sing. The most uplifting part is the hills are the arms of God, lifting me to Him. I choose to focus on that instead of the words that make me sad.

I was somewhat reluctant to share these thoughts, but decided to step outside my comfort zone. Maybe it will be a blessing!


July 25, 2019

something to do, something to love, something to hope for



Life has been busy, but good! I can hardly believe July is almost over. I haven't spent nearly as much time outside this summer as I would've liked. It seems work and other obligations take up too much of my time and I kind of rebel against that. Right now there's a list of things I should be working on, but I decided to sit on the deck with my gorgeous flowers and enjoy the evening for awhile. Why can't I have more time to rest and enjoy nature? I usually enjoy my job but resent that I have to be inside most of the time and it's been a drudgery lately. I know I still have it better than moms with babies and children to take care of, but looking at it from my perspective, I think, "at least moms can be home and go outside or take a nap if they want!"

I experienced a few days of family life when we went to Ohio to help Chad and Keela move into their new house. We were there five days and filled each one to the brim. I set up the kitchen, pantry, and laundry room and arranged her decor. Cliff's handyman skills were a tremendous help for hanging shower curtain rods and shelves, wiring lights and receptacles for Keela's sewing area in the basement, and other odds and ends. Chelsea (3) begged me to color with her and I couldn't always oblige because we were so busy unpacking and organizing, but managed to get a few pictures in! It's so neat to be integrated into someone else's life for awhile. A sister's house feels like my own and there's no pretense or false politeness necessary. Yes, it should be that way with everyone, but the truth is I'm just not that comfortable with anyone else! Even though we worked hard while we were there, it was still a vacation from our jobs and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute.



What are your "grand essentials of happiness"? For me "something to do" and "something to love" are kind of the same, but I'm blank on "something to hope for" (besides Heaven). Here's my essentials.

Something to do:  A fulfilling job I enjoy.

Something to love: Things I find pleasure in doing - being outside, planting and caring for flowers, reading, going on relaxing vacations like this one, spending time with family.

When I was young, there was always something to hope for. I looked forward to going to school, getting converted, graduating, turning 16, driving on my own, going to teach Bible school, going to girl's class, being with my friends, going to weddings, teaching school, getting married... now that's all over! I've been married almost 15 years, don't have my own children's milestones to look forward to, and am mostly content with my life. Sometimes I think the best part of my life was my youth years, even though there were turbulent times and I wish I would've done some things differently. Maybe I'm not understanding these "grand essentials of happiness" correctly though. Also, it's not necessarily scriptural so maybe it has no meaning. I'd love to hear your feedback!



July 12, 2019

This is home

Each stately tree and patch of woods

Lush green grass soft underfoot

Bubbling creeks and mountain streams

The whistle of a train

Warm summer breeze

Crisp autumn wind

Cold winter chill

Hills and small mountains

Covered bridges

Horse and buggy

Holstein cows

Narrow, winding roads full of cars

Italian-style pizza

Where childhood memories were made

Familiar faces

Dad and mom

Grandpa and grandma

Family

School that helped me grow

Church to show the right way

Old stone houses and barns

Dutch

No place I'd rather be

Pennsylvania

This is home













July 8, 2019

weekend getaway

For the last three years we've taken a short summer vacation to the Hudson River valley area in New York. It's only about three hours away and is so lovely! We usually stay in the Bear Mountain vicinity.


This time we stayed at the Inn at the Garrison, a small inn located on a golf course. It's also a wedding venue, and there were several while we were there. It wasn't a super quiet place because of that, but very clean and comfortable.

On our way to the Garrison, we stopped at our most favorite place to eat, The Filling Station (TFS) in Haverstraw. We discovered this place the first time we vacationed in that area and have been going ever since! Their specialty is burgers (made while you wait) and fries. You would be hard-pressed to find a better burger anywhere! The building is literally an old filling station. Definitely not a fine dining establishment, but quirky and unique.



Condiments are kept in old tool chests, like shown above. It's worth driving three hours just to eat there!

On Saturday we took a 2.5 hour cruise from Peekskill to West Point on a 36 passenger former Coast Guard boat called Evening Star


Unfortunately, it rained several times while we were on the trip. It was still fun though! We found out some interesting facts and history about the area. Although several places claim to be the inspiration for the yellow brick road in the Wizard of Oz, the actual road is supposed to be in Peekskill, where L. Frank Baum attended military academy. Seeing West Point from the river was pretty impressive.

West Point 


Saturday evening we went to Hudson Creamery for ice cream. I got the yellow brick road sundae, which was fantastic! It came in a waffle cone with crushed Nilla wafers and dulce de leche sauce. Quite a treat!




Lots of time to rest, beautiful scenery, and good food made for a relaxing getaway. It just went by too fast!



July 5, 2019

Thoughts on jobs, education, and culture

A recent conversation got me thinking about jobs, education, and the Mennonite culture. I did some quick research on how many people in our congregation are self-employed or working for a member versus those who are employed outside of our circles. The result was 95% self-employed or working for a member, and 5% working outside. A larger majority of the 95% are self-employed, which helps create jobs for others. We are fortunate to have jobs within our circles, and probably don't realize how good we have it. Most likely we are getting paid more working for a member than we would if employed elsewhere. Time off for weddings and vacations is easily granted and maybe even expected.

Will the majority of people in our circles continue to be self-employed or working for a member as time goes on? We might need to broaden our horizons and seek work elsewhere. When looking for a job, usually one of the first requirements is a GED. Where I work, even a housekeeper or dishwasher is required to have a GED, with a starting wage of $9 - $10 an hour. Jobs that require special training but not a college degree (phlebotomy, medical assistant, pharmacy tech, etc.) start out at $13 - $14 an hour. That comes out to a yearly gross income of approximately $30,000. If you're single you might manage to live off that, but it would be insufficient for supporting a spouse or family. Jobs that offer a better wage - say $50,000 or $60,000 a year - are generally going to require a college degree or experience working in that field.

The saying "it's not what you know, it's who you know" is certainly true. I've seen this at work. When management is looking to fill a position, they're much more likely to hire someone who was recommended by an employee. The hospital seldom hires pharmacists right out of school without any experience, but one new grad got the job because someone who formerly worked at St. Joe's recommended her. Also, I question whether all the housekeepers and dishwashers actually have a GED. I tend to believe they get hired if the manager knows them or someone recommends them.

Now for my main objective. I know this may be controversial, but I'm going to put it out there. An 8th or 9th grade education is no longer basic education and is insufficient for the time we live in. A basic education should be high school or equivalent (GED). In Pennsylvania, you have to be 18 to take the GED test. Most 8th graders could probably pass the GED, but after being out of school for 4 years they're going to have a harder time. By the time our young people are 18, they're thinking of going to a unit and getting married. Girls especially are probably not going to be interested in continuing their education because most women in our circles are homemakers and don't have to work to support themselves. However, there are single sisters, widows, and single moms who have to make a living.

Sixteen is the basic minimum age for employment, and there are laws that regulate how many hours a 14 or 15 year old can work. If our school went to 10th grade, students would be 16 when they graduate. An extra two years of school could be spent learning more work skills and better preparing our young people to find employment. Classes could include resume writing, computer skills, CPR and first aid. More time to practice math, grammar, and writing would be an advantage. Our schools are weak on science and social studies because we cram so much in eight years. Further study in those subjects would be an asset.

I don't claim to have answers, but have felt for a long time that we need a better school system. Times have changed since our church schools were established, and maybe it's time to take a closer look at how to better prepare our students for living and working in this modern age.