pros and cons

In my last post I mentioned feeling discontented with my job and experiencing nostalgia for teaching. It caught me by surprise because I thought I had finally put that to rest and no longer missed teaching. Sometimes I wonder why I can't be more settled with where I'm at in life. I know I sound unstable and wishy-washy. I'd like to be more steady and anchored, but don't believe in trying to be something I'm not. Being fake is too exhausting. At 35 years old, I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up! Part of me would like to settle down and stick with one thing, but the other part of me sees so many opportunities and begins to question if I want to stay in the same place. I'm also realizing how quickly time moves on and how soon we age. Am I using my time in the best way possible, or will I look back in 20 years and say "I should have taken that opportunity!"? This quote has been an inspiration to me many times, although I don't know exactly what it means for me.

What are the bowlines keeping me in the safe harbor? Could the safe harbor actually be the place I should stay? So many conflicting thoughts leave me feeling a little topsy-turvy. In an attempt to make sense of it all, I decided to make a list of pros and cons of being a teacher versus pros and cons of my current job. It helped to see it spelled out, but didn't completely clear it up. Here's a condensed version of that list. The items are not listed in order of importance.

Teaching: Pros

• Challenging and rewarding
• Involvement with church people, co-teachers
• Teaching subjects that inspire me
• Always opportunity to gain expertise
• Scheduled time off, summer vacation
• Exposure to the outdoors, not confined 
• Dress up, wear nice things
• Decorating a classroom
• Time moves quickly
• Introduce children to wonders in history, science, books, etc. That excited look when they learn something interesting.

Teaching: Cons

• Constant scrutiny
• Criticism
• Weight of responsibility
• Enforce rules, discipline
• Never done at work, work follows me home
• Difficult situations with students or parents
• Not financially compensated on the same level as effort put in
• Poor work/life balance

Pharmacy: Pros

• Work can be left at work
• Steady income, affordable health insurance
• Challenging
• Being a part of the medical field
• Time to read, write, do puzzle, and other hobbies
• Work/life balance
• Feel appreciated, valuable as an employee 

Pharmacy: Cons

• Little involvement with church people
• No routine schedule 
• Mandatory weekends, evenings, nights, holidays
• Rules, regulations, policies
• No exposure to the outdoors - work in a confined area
• Difficult co-workers, managers

I'm pretty certain I know what the "safe harbor" is and what makes the most financial sense by considering these points. Is work/life balance more important than being involved with my church family? I know there will never be a "perfect" job and every situation has advantages and disadvantages. I can accept my present job and it's not like I have to make a decision between the two. So unless some other door opens, I'll keep plugging away!

To my students

To the students who were in my classroom between 2013 - 2016:

I just want to give you a glimpse of the thoughts I've been having. In some ways it seems like yesterday we were doing algebra on the chalkboard, having story time, and so much more in the 170 days (or more) you and I spent in the classroom. You may not remember it as clearly as I do, but those were some of the best days of my life. The passing of time makes all the good times stand out, but I acknowledge there were tough times too. Even though I tried my best, I made mistakes and failed. Hopefully I didn't cause any lasting damage.

Now you are all part of the youth group, and when I see you singing in front of church, or giving your testimony during revivals, I am filled with admiration. Every one of you has grown into a more mature, polished version of the younger you who sat in my classroom. It's so amazing to see the beautiful person you have become! I'm so proud of you.

Building relationships with my students didn't always come easy, but I want you to know I loved being your teacher. You might not have loved being my student, and that's ok! It doesn't change the fact that you will always be one of "my kids."

Love,

Miss Smith